Divorce Aftermath through the Lens of Resilience

Lived Experiences of Divorced Custodial, Young Women in Adama, Ethiopia

Abstract

Divorce is an adverse family life transition, particularly, for women and children–the most vulnerable groups. Despite many studies addressing its prevalence, causes and consequences, divorce remains an inevitable outcome of violent marital relationships.  Hence, it is imperative to promote strategies for positive adaptation post-divorce. Thus, the current study set out to investigate the resilience of divorced, custodial, single mothers in Adama, Ethiopia. Conducting semi-structured, in-depth interviews with 15 purposefully selected participants on their lived experiences, and using phenomenological data analysis, the study identified that women divorcees in the area remain emotionally resilient despite economic struggles in the aftermath of divorce. Spirituality, increasing self-awareness, commitment for sole custody, and seeking support, at the individual level; emotional and financial provision from families; and indigenous social institutions and other ecological support systems were key protective factors. Despite sharing the findings of many previous studies, the key results of the current research highlight three unique aspects: the sole custody as a protective factor, positive adaptation despite destitute economic situation, and the contribution of traditional social institutions for resilience of divorced women in the area. These findings lay a foundation for developing culturally relevant social work interventions, and show the need for further research to exploit indigenous social institutions as pivotal instrument for the same cause.